It took 10 years for Kevin Cronin to complete the song that became one of REO Speedwagonâs most definitive power ballads. When he finally delivered it, he hated the title, but he couldnât fight it anymore. The roots of âCanât Fight This Feelingâ went back, like many of Croninâs songs, to an old relationship. On the surface, the song is about a guy whoâs finally admitting heâs in love with someone heâs known for a long time; more directly, the singer and songwriter later explained, it was âabout my inability to have the courage to express myself.â
âItâs a little bit of an amalgamation,â Cronin told in an interview. âA song usually is sparked by something that I have an emotional response to. But there is actually more than one person that that song was inspired by. ⊠I was brought up in an Irish-Catholic family, and you were taught to always keep a bright face, always act like everything was okay, even if maybe everything on the inside wasnât so okay. So thatâs something Iâve struggled with and, over the years, have gotten better at.â
Cronin settled down to complete the track in 1984, while the members of REO Speedwagon were taking time off from what had become a challenging schedule. He was in Hawaii when he turned his attention once again to a piece he was calling âMy Guiding Light.â
âWhen I wrote the verses for that song, I felt like Iâd captured lightning in a bottle,â he explained later. âIt was just a very emotional night for me when I wrote âem. But I never wrote a chorus. One day I was set to co-write the chorus with Eric Carmen from the Raspberries, and I work up that morning and I was deathly sick. I called Eric, and Iâm like, âDude, I canât do it today.â But I was laying there in bed, and I was thinking, âYou know, I really donât wanna co-write this song. This song is so special for me, I gotta figure this out.ââ
Cronin remembered being in bed, unable to fight the feeling of being ill, and asking himself what he was missing in the lyrics. He told himself, âThe opening line of the song is, âI canât fight this feeling any longerâ â I was like, âThatâs what the songâs about. Itâs about having a feeling and fighting it for so long until you finally have to surrender.â I gotta throw this out there. I might get shot down, I might not.ââ
The next thing he couldnât fight anymore was the trackâs name. âIâm like, âAll right, I guess the title of the song is âI Canât Fight This Feeling.â ⊠Thatâs a terrible song title! I canât believe Iâm going to [name] this song Iâm so proud of with this shitty song title!â Well, I got to!â
The cut appeared on REO Speedwagonâs 11th album, Wheels Are Turninâ, in November 1984. âCanât Fight This Feelingâ was its second single, released on Jan. 23, 1985; it held the No. 1 position for three consecutive weeks in March â only their second single to reach the top spot, following 1981âs âKeep on Loving Youâ.